Wednesday, June 19, 2013

You Can't Always Get What You Want...

In all respects, I should have been a spoiled child.

I was a surprise baby (child number five), with ten years separating me and my next oldest sibling. And if you’ve ever listened to the worn out tales of babies born into such circumstances you know the expected end-product: snotty nosed brats who lug around heavy doses of entitlement.

But God chose to place me in a family that doled out love by bushels and pecks and hugs around the neck and so the only things that came to be spoiled around our house were forgotten cartons of cottage cheese shoved to the back of the refrigerator.

Because, you see, love has never spoiled anything. Ever.

But I was a child once and, as such, I certainly had my moments--moments of selfish desire and impudent behavior, of unmet longings and unrequited wishes. And, being a child, I naturally looked to the givers of good things—my parents—for the delivery of said hopes.

So, as a child nurtured by way of arms flung wide and hearts burst open, the phrase “You can’t always get what you want” was a tad bewildering, at first. Not because I was spoiled or bratty or entitled but because, for so long, my parents’ love had been enough. Love and acceptance had been the standard upon which I grew and thrived and so, I had never really felt a lack.

And then I entered junior high and everything kind of flipped upside down...

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  1. Holly - I read your story over at Micha's blog. Really enjoyable. Thank you for sharing. :)

  2. absolutely an amazing story. you are a dear, blessed woman.

  3. Matt,
    Thank you for reading and taking the time to comment. It means so much to hear from you, especially as your words have inspired so many. Thank you, again.

  4. Rachel,
    Thank you for your kind words. And, yes, I am very blessed...

  5. I liked your conclusion that what we really want is what we really need~love and acceptance from the right source. Thank you for your wisdom.